Girls, a little help on this one?

Okay well girls seem to date me just to be dirty with me or have sex,all they go out with me is(I don't Wanna be arrogant)because they say I look hot and things like that. Some of the girls I have dated say that I am really nice and I have a cool personality, but I don't know...I'm dating this girl and I love her and she has said she loves me and were really affectionate together and we might have sex soon but I'm not sure if she is another girl like the rest or a girl that really wants a relationship?and if It helps we have alot in common oh and we agreed on to have sex but she has lately become more aroused weere together



Well, no girl can resist a good-looking guy--especially when he has the whole package (personality, brains, manners, etc.).





She sounds like a pretty good girl. Even though she's starting to get aroused when you're together, that just means she's connecting with you; emotionally AND physically.





Don't be afraid to take the next step with her. Just be passionate with her to show her that she's not just another girl. When you focus on her, she feels wanted & desired. After a good night with you; she won't be able to turn back & you'll have won her heart.





Good luck, bud!! Hope I helped!




well, some girls are kinda bad there but not all girls are like that. if you think that this girl could really like you then talk to her about how other girls played you and how you don't want this relationship to be the same way. If she truly cares, she will reasure you of her feelings. As for her getting "aroused", it might be her playful way of showing you that shes up to having sex. hope this helps!




girls have this same problem, I would suggest you hold off on the sex for awhile and really get to know this person. I dont know how old you are or anything, but like the saying goes only time will tell. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, it should be something that happens when two people love each other and love takes time.


good luck to you!




wait awhile if you have doubts that she's not into you for the right stuff. it's not a bad thing to wait to have sex until you know for sure if she's there for more than just that.




After you do her for awhile her real personality will come out. That's when you need to decide. Always use protection.




If she really likes you then she'll wait on the sex thing if you make her...then you'll know if she's only after one thing or not




First of all, you don't need to have sex. WAIT til marriage. Go out with her and love her. After time and you are the right age and school behind you - then think about engagement.





How can you have respect for someone who has been "doing it" with others. It seems today that finding a girl who has not done it is very hard to find and Viceversa. But you will feel more special if for the first time together that you know that she has not done it with anyone else and she will feel that way with you.





Once you "do it" you lose respect for yourself and the person you are doing it to. AND how do you know they are not just using you for the "act". Be special!





Build on the relationship that you have. Really get to know each other and love each other. Love is a great thing and does not hurt i.e. cheating on each other, using someone, etc.





Waiting til wedding day is the best rout to go. You will feel very good about yourself and her.