What should i do now that ive been flirting with her for like 2 months?

Yea so ive been flirting wiht this girl for like 2 months. Now she tells me she has feelings. It started out as mutual friendly flirting. But now shes telling me she has feelings and i have NONE for her.





What should i do? Would you want to date someone that had no feelings for you? What should i do? Should i just date her so she feels happy or whatever?



yeah you might get lucky and get a little somethin somethin out of it.




Do NOT date to make her happy. You would be adding fuel to the fire, and delaying the inevitable. Tell her you're sorry, but that you're just a natural flirt, and you flirt with a lot of girls. You didn't intend to get into a relationship. It's time she learns there's people out there who are flirts. She took a chance to tell you the truth, but now you have to tell her the truth too. Also back off on the flirting with her, it will hurt and confuse her, now just be normal friendly.




Definitely don't date her just to make her happy because that is just not right. I think you should tell her that you don't have feelings in that way for her. Sure you like her as a friend (if you actually do like her as a friend) but nothing more than that at this moment in your life. Maybe later on you'll think of her in a different way but right now things seem right when you are just friends.




No, you should stop flirting with her and tell her that you dont have feelings for her. If you dont say anything and keep flirting or you get in a relationship with her it will make things worse. She will like you more and more and it ill be harder to let her down easily. Do her a favor and let her know now. She will be sad but its better than prolonging it.




well its kinda dumb to flirt with someone that you cant see yourself dating


but we all've done it once before :P


try getting to know her more if you dont already


then if you see that you start to like her, go out!


if you see she's not your type, tell her that you want to stay friends




Be honest. If you do the opposite you will end up hurting her. If you're not interested in her just tell her politely that you're not. Don't drag her along to make her happy because when the truth comes out, it's going to hurt her badly.