Me and this girl like each other for sure, but her mom wont let her go out with anybody and go out secretly is not an option... please help!!!



if she can't go out on any dates then go to her house & hang out. get the parents trust and i'm sure they'll let you take her out in no time.




Sounds to me like a high school problem and that's okay. I would see her at school and be in that sorta relationship. Hang with her there and if your relationship blossoms then hold out for the day that y'all can go out without hiding anything. I would definitely not recommend doing anything that would drive a wedge between her and her mother...that's a wound that don't heal and someday the girl would probably hate for it. Just give it time and things will work out.




Ask her if her Mom will allow you to come to their house and watch TV or do homework together or just listen to music and talk. This should absolutely NOT be a bedroom visit and should be done when Mom is home. This is the way my sisters and I started spending time with boys. As long as you are polite and make your visits short, you can probable work this out with her Mom.




If she is of proper age then I would go to her mother and ask her permission to take her daughter out. If she still says no then maybe ask if you could join them in a family event like the movies, park, etc. That will show her mother that your interested in her daughter but at the same time respect her as her mother. Only if shes of dating age though!!




This would be extremely akward for you but you could talk to this girls mom. Give her your contact info and explain that you would get this girl home on time and safely. Start with a small date and work up. Like icecream in a public place. You would look responsible and mature for reasoning with her.




Try doing a group thing. It won't be one-on-one, but it's better than nothing. I know I'm still not trusted with a guy alone, not that I've done anything to have lost that trust. Maybe meet her mom, let her see what a great guy you are so you can earn her trust.




Well, the issue is between her and her mom. Try asking her if she could talk to her mom about meeting you. But if it's not gonna happen, then don't get involved any further. Maybe you could have a chance again down the road.




well maybe you should prove to her mom that you will not do anything to hurt her daughter and that you will treat her with respect. show the mom that you are sweet and caring.




Well, First of all is this girl 18





I think not so you should respect the girls mom, and don't try to push your luck.


So wait, if you love her that much I'm sure you can wait until she's 18.




Well you can try talking to her mom? Maybe once she gets to know you she can see that you really do care about her daughter?




If you guys really like each other than you guys have to be willing to wait.




There's no question here!


If you can't go out then you can't go out.


I don't get what you want help with.




let me guess your 45 years old and she is 14 years old




HIRE A HITMAN AND GET THE MUM TAKEN OUT!!!! THEN U WONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE *****